SEX PLAY AND A MAN’S SEX ORGANS

When it comes to handling a man’s sex organs there are a few hints that might help lovers. First, a man’s penis can be very small at times, especially if he is cold or anxious or not feeling at all sexy. There is no need for concern because the penis will come back to its normal size as soon as it is stimulated. Similarly, a man’s scrotal contents appear to vary greatly in size and still be perfectly healthy and normal. If one side swells up or is tender, even on gentle handling, get medical advice.

Once a man is aroused sexually, his genitals can stand quite a lot of fairly vigorous handling, but be guided by him as to what he likes. Many men complain that their women are too gentle and do not, for example, rub hard enough when masturbating them.

Although a man’s penis is the most obvious part of the sexual anatomy he will enjoy being stimulated along the whole length of his sexual tract too. Many men enjoy the root of the penis (between the penis base and the anus) being rubbed and massaged as there is a large amount of erectile tissue there. Some men like their prostate massaged by the woman inserting her finger into the anus (beware of long fingernails and be sure to lubricate the anus well first or it will be uncomfortable). This can be especially pleasant when a man is being masturbated. The prostate is easily felt as a small, hard, rounded object at the base of the penis inside the man’s rectum.

Apart from putting things inside the urinary passage, squeezing the testicles too hard or biting the penis there is really no harm that can be done during love-play or intercourse. All men are fairly similar in the way they prefer to be stimulated but individual variations do occur.

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